When she is fighting with you, it is not because she really wants to fight with you.
Who wants to fight with the person they love?
What she really wants is your undivided attention.
She wants affection from ALL of you,
Your mind, Your body and Your soul.
Change your perspective from the warrior to the lover
Understand that she wants your positive attention and affection.
When she is mad or sad, put away your sword and take the time to listen to her
When she is yelling at you,
Uncross your arms and creep across the room to her
Wrap your arms around her.
Show her that you care by being there for her.